Somebody gets sick, diagnosed with a serious illness or injured every day. If that happens to one of your loved ones, you will naturally want to comfort him. Feeling loved and special is important for your friend’s well-being. It is believed that those who are sick or injured recover more rapidly if supportive and caring people demonstrate their concern and love for them.
It would mean so much to your loved one if you visit him in person. You can convey your feelings and concern with a hug or a pat on the arm. If a personal visit is not possible, a phone call might be appreciated. If the illness is serious or the injury severe, it would be wise to check with a family member or the patient’s nurse to determine if a visit or phone call would be advisable. A thoughtful letter might be more appropriate, because your loved one can read it many times and get added pleasure and enjoyment with each reading. Your letter can be serious, humorous, joyful or whatever fits the occasion and the individual. If you don’t know what to say or write, try to imagine yourself in your loved one’s situation and think about what you would like to hear or read.
If you have a friend or family member in the hospital, or confined to his home because of an illness or injury, you will want to show your concern by bringing or sending a gift. Your friend will know that you really care about him when you give him a distinctive get well gift basket, gift box or tower containing goodies chosen especially for him. These unique gifts are available with flowers if you desire, and come with your choice of a wide variety of items packed in them. You can make your selections with your friend’s particular tastes in mind and choose delicious soups, gourmet coffee, tea, cookies, chocolates, wines or a host of different treats to bring comfort to your friend. If the recipient of your thoughtfulness is a child, you could include a singing teddy bear in the gift basket.
If someone is seriously ill or injured, you might be worried about what to say if you visit him. Present your loved one with one of these lovely get well gift baskets and you will find that it proves to be a good conversation starter. You will get an indication about his state of mind by the kind of remarks he makes about your thoughtful gift. Then you will know whether he feels like discussing his situation, or if he feels more like talking about other things. Whatever his mood, he will know how much you care because of the lovely gift you selected just for him.
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
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